What’s the problem with thoughts and prayers? I’m glad you asked. The answer? No one is thinking or praying for people. So when I hear politicians talk against thoughts and prayers, they have a point…to a point.
The problem is, society has made thoughts and prayers just something to say. For the Christian, this is problematic. When we hear our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ say, “Hey, I’m praying for you”, we want to believe that’s the case. When we post on Social Media our woes of all sorts, people say “prayers,” or “…my thoughts and prayers go out to your family.” Now, the question is again, are they actually praying? Or they felt they needed to say something comforting, so that phrase became the call of what to say.

There it is my friends, there lies the problem. Prayer is not to make you feel good. When we pray, we are communicating with the Lord Jesus Christ, our Savior. We ask Him to divinely intervene in our lives in whatever capacity. And the problem to why Christians are not seeing activation and revelation from their prayers is because they have allowed the lack of seriousness in our prayers to become the norm. So how can we expect the world to take our prayers seriously when we are doing what they are doing? REPENT.
IN ADDITION, We have several dynamics of people who say this phrase: First, there are the Non-Believers who use it as a pleasant thing to say. Next, there are the Cultural Christians who make this part of their “Christianese” rather than actual faith in Christ. Finally there are the actual Believers who trust in their prayers to God and know that they know He will respond.
What’s The Issue Now?
In the wake of the devastating shooting at Annunciation Catholic School in Minneapolis on August 27, 2025, the phrase “thoughts and prayers” has become the flashpoint of a deeper national debate. This tragedy, which claimed the lives of two children and injured many others, prompted Mayor Jacob Frey to challenge platitudes. In his view, “these kids were literally praying,” and he called for urgent legislative action on gun violence. Frey argued that sympathy alone is not sufficient.
In sharp contrast, Bishop Robert Barron defended prayer as a meaningful spiritual response. He called Frey’s dismissal “completely asinine” and emphasized that prayer and moral action are not mutually exclusive.
The tension deepened when Vice President J.D. Vance criticized those who diminish prayer. He affirmed that “we pray because we believe that God is listening” while adding that no one considers prayer a substitute for action.
House Speaker Mike Johnson echoed this stance. He accused political leaders of “attacking religion” by downplaying prayer and asserted that the root causes of violence lie in the human heart, not firearms.
Meanwhile, commentators like Scott Jennings faced backlash for attributing the tragedy primarily to mental illness. Critics argued that faith-driven responses must be coupled with concrete policy reforms.
What Does The Bible Say About Thoughts And Prayers?
You’ve heard it a hundred times after a tragedy. Someone says, “Our thoughts and prayers are with you.” Now, that’s not wrong. Prayer is powerful, and Scripture never tells us to stop praying. But let’s be real for a moment. James 2:14–26 reminds us that if all we do is speak words without moving to action, then something’s missing. James paints the picture like this: if you see someone hungry and cold and say, “Hey, I hope you stay warm and well fed,” but do not actually do anything, what good did that do? That is like sending well wishes with no follow-through. Faith without works, James says, is dead.
Here’s the first takeaway: genuine faith does not sit still, it moves. When we pray for the hurting, we should also be ready for God to tap us on the shoulder and say, “Now go do something about it.” Maybe it is showing up with a hot meal, offering a ride, writing a card, or even stepping into the bigger fight for justice. Prayer is not meant to keep us comfortable. It is meant to move us into God’s mission.
Here’s the second: our actions do not replace faith, they prove it is alive. Abraham proved his faith by trusting God with Isaac. Rahab proved hers by protecting the spies. Their faith came to life because it walked out of their mouths and into their steps. That is the kind of faith James says is the real deal.
In the end, this shouldn’t be just something to say, and yes, a physical response to our faith should be in route.
Three Things To Consider
- Ask yourself, who is praying for you? When people say God, you’re assuming they are talking about the God of the Bible. Be careful. Ensure they believe in the God who sent His son Jesus Christ to die on the Cross for you and my sins.
- Ask them how serious they are about their prayer life. Knowing that person’s walk with Christ is very important. How can they pray for you when they do not believe in their own prayers? Know that person, for it is written in James 2:14: Acknowledge your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed: for the prayer of a righteous man availeth much, if it be fervent.
- Stop saying “thoughts and prayers” and say “prayers”. We need to not just think on it, but pray as the priority. That phrase was meant to unify the World and the Believer. Those who believe in Jesus Christ should be leading the world, representing themselves as Ambassadors for the Kingdom.
A Prayer For Your Walk
Gracious Father, we come before You with heavy hearts and troubled minds. The world shakes, tragedy strikes, and pain reaches into our homes. We do not always know what to say or how to pray, but we turn to You because You hear and You care.
Lord, guide us to speak to You with sincerity and not with shallow words. Show us that prayer is not a cliché but a lifeline that ties us to Your strength. Move our prayers beyond habit into genuine faith that trusts You in the dark nights and in the bright mornings.
Father, comfort the brokenhearted, strengthen the weary, and give wisdom to leaders who must act. Replace fear with peace, hate with love, and despair with the hope found only in Your Son, Jesus Christ.
We cannot fix the deep hurts of this world on our own. We lean into Your promises and trust You to guide us step by step. Shape our thoughts with Your truth and draw us closer to You and to one another through prayer.
In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.
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Pastor Rick Penn is an ordained pastor, writer, and the founder of Get-Prayer.com, a resource built to help believers develop a consistent, grounded prayer life.
With more than 20 years of preaching the Gospel, Pastor Rick brings deep theological training and lived pastoral experience to everything he writes. He holds a Master of Divinity from Virginia University of Lynchburg, an M.A. with a concentration in New Testament Studies from Baptist Bible Seminary, and a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration from Averett University.
His writing reflects a personal commitment to making prayer accessible to everyday Christians. Whether he is writing a prayer for someone in a hospital waiting room, walking through fear about the future, or sitting down with a blank prayer journal for the first time, Pastor Rick writes from a place of both theological grounding and pastoral care.
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